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Wedding Trend: Why A Small Wedding Just Makes Sense?

Bee · 13 October 2023

Wedding Trend: Why Having A Small Wedding Just Makes Sense?

When it comes to weddings, bigger isn't always better. In fact, many couples are now opting for intimate gatherings, and for good reason. Small weddings have become a popular choice for those who seek a more personalised and meaningful celebration. 


From having more personal time with guests to it being less overwhelming, read on as we explore the benefits of hosting a small wedding:



1. More Time with Friends & Family


Small weddings allow you to create a more intimate atmosphere, where you can truly connect with your closest family and friends. It’s extremely rare that we get to have all our friends and families at one place to celebrate. With fewer guests, you'll have the opportunity to spend quality time with each one, share personal stories, and catch up on lost times.


Some of the trending small wedding venues now are:

  • Family Home / AirBnB
  • Beachside
  • Event Space Rental
  • Coffee Shop / Restaurant
  • Garden


While the concept of holding a small and intimate wedding at a dedicated event venue or a beautiful spot like a beach is a cherished dream for many, it's crucial to consider the logistical aspects and food arrangements. After all, no celebration is complete without some delectable snacks!



2. Fully-Personalised


A smaller guest list allows for more customization. Whether it's personalised décor, unique seating arrangements, or beautiful and meaningful door gifts, small weddings offer flexibility and attention to detail that may be challenging in larger settings.


We’ve hosted guests who hand-write letters to each and everyone of their guests, a small wedding allows this to be possible. Imagine having to write 500 personalised letters for a large scale wedding,  that just wouldn’t be feasible. Another example are door gifts, many couples want to give meaningful door gifts, but meaningful and unique often comes with a hefty price tag if you’re hosting a large scale wedding.

3. Reduced Stress


Planning a large wedding can be overwhelming, with numerous logistical challenges and a need for extensive coordination. Smaller weddings simplify this process significantly, as there are fewer details to manage, such as:


  • Catering
  • Transportation / parking space
  • Seating

This reduction in complexity can lead to a more stress-free planning.


4. Budget-Friendly / Get more for less


Opting for a smaller wedding can be budget-friendly. With fewer guests to accommodate, you can allocate your budget more efficiently, splurging on the elements that mean the most to you. A wedding planner might be less expensive for a smaller wedding with less to organise. Caterers, bartenders, and even serving staff may charge less when serving a smaller guest list, particularly as these services often charge based on the number of guests.


On top of being budget-friendly, your wedding funds can be used to focus on the quality of your wedding elements rather than the quantity. This includes high-quality food, memorable experiences, and attention to detail that might get lost in a larger, more impersonal setting. Afterall, this is your unique and momentous occasion, and your focus should be on savouring every moment, not constantly fretting!



5. Flexibility in Selecting a Venue


With a smaller guest list, anywhere is possible. You’re no longer confined to just hotels and restaurants. Think gardens, the beachside, or even a beautiful AirBnB, you can easily shape shift a space to fit your guests.




The trend towards small weddings makes perfect sense for couples who want a truly personalised, stress-free, and intimate celebration. The benefits of reduced planning complexity, increased personalization, and the chance to share meaningful moments with your closest loved ones are undeniable.

If you're considering an intimate wedding, we're here to help you turn your dreams into reality. Contact us today to inquire about how we can make your special day truly unforgettable.